Christian Marriage Counseling and Coaching

Marriage is a beautiful journey, but it’s not without its challenges. At NuWell Christian Online Counseling, we believe that every couple has the potential to heal, grow, and strengthen their relationship-no matter how difficult things may seem. Whether you’re facing communication struggles, trust issues, conflict, or emotional disconnection, our faith-based marriage counseling provides a path toward renewal and restoration.

Why Choose NuWell for Marriage Counseling?

Faith-Based Guidance

Our counseling is rooted in biblical principles, helping couples navigate challenges with God’s wisdom and grace.

Online Convenience

Get professional support from the comfort of your home with flexible virtual sessions that fit your schedule. 

Personalized Approach

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Every couple is unique. We tailor our counseling to your relationship’s specific needs, whether you’re newlyweds or have been married for decades. 

Healing and Reconnection

We focus on practical tools to improve communication, rebuild trust, and restore emotional and spiritual intimacy. 

Faith and Wellness: The Power of Spiritual Connection

Faith-based counseling does more than address surface-level concerns; it nurtures both mind and spirit. When couples turn toward their faith during life’s storms, they can find renewed purpose and meaning, along with a deeper sense of hope.

Guided by biblical wisdom, this approach strengthens not only your relationship with each other, but also your connection to God. Studies have shown that maintaining a spiritual practice or participating in a faith community—whether at your local church or in a small group—can reduce feelings of depression, offer support during tough times, and even contribute to better physical health and longevity.

By weaving spiritual reflection and prayer into your counseling journey, you build a firmer foundation rooted in love, accountability, and God’s grace. This holistic support provides the encouragement, tools, and spiritual clarity needed as you learn, grow, and walk together in faith.

What to Expect in Christian Marriage Counseling Sessions

When you sit down with a Christian marriage counselor, you can expect them to explore the role your faith plays both personally and within your marriage. They’ll often invite each partner to share openly about their walk with God—how that journey influences your relationship, your hopes, your struggles, and how you handle disagreements.

Some common areas your counselor may ask about include:

  • Spiritual Foundations: How does your personal relationship with God affect your daily life together? What does prayer look like in your marriage?
  • Relationship Goals: Where do you each hope to see your marriage a year—or ten years—from now? How do your individual callings support or challenge each other?
  • Current Challenges: What obstacles has your marriage faced? Are there ongoing patterns of miscommunication or hurt that need healing?
  • Values and Priorities: What matters most to each of you individually, and as a couple? Where do your values align, and where do they differ?
  • Communication Style: How do you resolve conflict? Do you listen to understand, or simply to respond?
  • Forgiveness and Reconciliation: Are there past wounds that need tending? Is there unspoken resentment, or a need for grace and restoration?
  • Role of Community and Church: How engaged are you with faith communities? Are you seeking encouragement and accountability outside the home?

Above all, Christian marriage counselors provide a safe, grace-filled environment where you and your spouse can speak honestly—and be heard. With Biblical wisdom, clinical insight, and a heart for restoration, they’ll help you identify strengths and growth areas, turning even the most difficult seasons into opportunities for deeper connection and spiritual maturity.

Applying Christian Principles Like Forgiveness in Marriage

One of the powerful tools for healing and restoration in a marriage is the Christian principle of forgiveness. Scripture repeatedly points us to the importance of letting go of past wounds—not as a way to excuse hurtful behavior, but as a path to genuine reconciliation and growth.

By embracing forgiveness, couples can break the cycle of resentment and move towards deeper unity. A Christian counselor can help you and your spouse explore examples of forgiveness found in the Bible and draw practical steps for integrating this principle into your daily interactions. This might involve learning how to express remorse, extend grace, rebuild broken trust, or simply start fresh when old habits resurface.

The goal isn’t to minimize pain, but to create space for honest conversation and mutual support, allowing God’s love to reshape patterns and foster lasting connection within your marriage.

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Seven Core Principles for a Strong Christian Marriage

Building a Christ-centered marriage requires more than good intentions—it takes commitment to a set of godly principles that anchor the relationship through the highs and lows. Here are the foundational Biblical values that help couples not just survive, but truly thrive together:

  • Serve One Another in Love: Healthy marriages are marked by selflessness. Each partner seeks opportunities to build up the other, meeting one another’s needs in practical and loving ways.
  • Practice Unconditional Love: Love is more than a feeling—it’s a daily choice, modeled after Christ’s sacrificial love for us. This kind of love endures through difficulties, misunderstandings, and changing circumstances.
  • Show Respect Consistently: Mutual respect is non-negotiable. Honoring each other’s words, opinions, and boundaries creates a safe and nurturing environment for growth.
  • Prioritize Your Marriage: Your relationship with your spouse comes before all others (even kids, careers, or extended family). Protect your marriage by intentionally setting aside time just for each other.
  • Stay Deeply Committed: Commitment extends beyond fleeting emotions. It’s a steadfast promise to weather any storm together, rooted in faithfulness and perseverance.
  • Put Your Spouse’s Needs Above Your Own: Marriage flourishes when both partners practice humility, choosing to serve and support the other before themselves.
  • Bring Out the Best in Each Other: God designed couples to complement and complete one another. Encourage each other’s strengths, support through weaknesses, and become more like Christ together.

These seven Christ-centered principles form a sturdy foundation—enabling couples to handle every season of marriage with grace, resilience, and joy.

How Effective Is Marriage Counseling?

When it comes to marriage counseling, the results can be encouraging. Research indicates that about 70% of couples who participate in counseling report improvements in their relationship—and many go on to stay together. When both spouses are actively committed to the process, the likelihood of restoring and strengthening the marriage increases significantly. True healing often happens when both partners are willing to work through difficulties together, with guidance from a trained professional who supports them every step of the way.

Licensed Marriage Counselors vs. Clergy and Faith Leaders

When navigating marital challenges, couples can turn to both spiritual leaders and professional counselors—but understanding the roles they play makes a world of difference.

Licensed marriage counselors have undergone rigorous academic and clinical training, equipping them to address relationship dynamics, communication breakdowns, and emotional struggles using evidence-based therapeutic techniques. Their expertise allows them to guide couples through complex issues rooted in both psychological and relational factors, leaning on therapy models that have stood the test of research and practice.

Clergy and faith leaders, on the other hand, offer spiritual wisdom and pastoral care grounded in faith traditions. While many pastors, priests, or church elders have gifts in counseling or deep experience shepherding couples, their primary training often centers around theological and spiritual matters rather than clinical mental health. Some ministers do pursue specialized education in marriage and family counseling, but this isn’t always the norm. When issues extend beyond spiritual guidance—especially in cases involving trauma, addiction, or serious conflict—a compassionate clergy member may recommend turning to a licensed counselor for more specialized support.

At NuWell, we recognize the value of both approaches and often blend clinical expertise with biblical guidance to serve couples holistically. You don’t have to choose one or the other—sometimes the best healing happens in partnership.

Healthy Marriage

Common Marriage Challenges We Address:

Communication Breakdowns

Learn how to express your feelings, listen actively, and resolve conflicts peacefully. 

Trust and Infidelity

Overcome past betrayals and rebuild a foundation of honesty and companionship. 

 

Emotional Disconnection

Strengthen your bond and rediscover the joy of companionship.

Financial and Family Stress

Navigate money, parenting and family dynamics in a way that strengthens your marriage. 

Spiritual Alignment

Grows together in faith, aligning your relationship with God’s design for marriage. 

Your Path to a Stronger, Healthier Marriage

No matter where you are in your relationship, it’s neever too late to seek help ad make positive changes. At NuWell, our compassionate counselors are here to walk alongside you, offering encouragement, biblical wisdom, and professional strategies to help your marriage thrive.

Take the first step today. Schedule a free consultation and start your journey toward a renewed and Christ-centered marriage. 

 

Holistic Care Tailored to You

No matter what you may be experiencing in your marriage, we can help. NuWell’s team offers Christian marriage counseling and coaching that understands premium care must engage with the whole person – spiritually, emotionally, physiologically, socially, and cognitively. And, there’s no one-size-fits-all-marriages solution. As we get to know you and your partner, we will craft a plan of care tailored to your marriage.

Getting Started with NuWell Online Counseling and Coaching

Speak with a client care coordinator for personalized recommendations.

Schedule a 30 minute consultation for free, today!

We do not ask you to put a credit card on file or prepay for sessions.

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Have you given up on your relationship? Try Christian Marriage Counseling or Coaching.

NuWELL is a small business providing online video counseling and coaching from a Christian perspective.

NuWELL hires only a small number of the most qualified counselors and coaching.

We accept a limited amount of clients, so we can focus on you.

With no prepayment for sessions, your first 30-minute consultation is FREE.

Our Other Services Include:

Coaching

Coaching looks at your present functioning along with your future potential in order to help you unlock your giftings, passions, and talents so that you can succeed in being all that God has called you to be. It helps you move beyond your current limitations to set and accomplish God-sized goals for your life.

Anxiety & Depression

Anxiety and depression distort how we feel, think, and handle mundane activities such as sleep, nutrition, and work for extended periods of time. Both are among the most effectively treated mental disorders with routine therapy being one of the most effective treatment options.

Family Conflict

Family conflict is inevitable. Dysfunctional families are the rule, not the exception. A functional family is best described as one that handles their dysfunction with love and grace. Every family experiences conflict. It’s still a challenge to navigate though. Oftentimes an outside perspective creates clarity for the family to find resolution.

Emotional Dysfunction

Experiencing abuse or trauma can create toxic beliefs about ourselves that result in feelings of anger, rejection, worthlessness, low self-esteem, shame, emotional shutdown, and self-hatred. Internalizing these poisonous lies leads to emotional dysphoria and dysfunction where we oftentimes create false identities for ourselves.

Spiritual Abuse

Spiritual abuse is rampant. This kind of abuse must be handled with special care because of how it impacts our identity while creating an unnecessary barrier between us and God. The help of a skillful and trusted guide is essential in healing spiritual wounds and restoring a proper understanding of God, ourselves, and others.

Grief & Trauma

Grief and trauma can develop deep roots in our identity if left unresolved. Whether it’s childhood trauma, loss of a loved one, sexual trauma, or any other form, it needs resolution. Treatment for trauma and grief involves a counseling professional using evidence-based clinical treatments as well as Biblical and pastoral approaches.

Marriage & Relationships

Marriages and relationships are hard work. There are seasons when communication with our significant others feels impossible. Sometimes deeply rooted or toxic problems arise threatening to destroy a relationship we’ve spent years cultivating. Trained marriage counselors give you the safe space and tools you need to overcome these obstacles.

Spiritual Warfare

There is a real spiritual enemy seeking to wreak havoc and destruction in our lives. We suffer under the enemy far more than we need to because we willingly walk in sin or believe the enemy’s lies. A spiritual counselor equips you to recognize the enemy’s attacks while helping you develop a successful counter-attack.

Addictions

Addictions affect people and their loved ones in many different ways. Not only are there substance addictions, such as alcohol and drugs, but there are also behavioral addictions like sex, pornography, food, video games, social media. Professional counselors guide those suffering from addiction and their loved ones from despair to freedom.