by Nuwellonline Team | Nov 10, 2026 | Pastoral Counseling
Christian caregiver resentment By Stephen A. Luther, MEd, MSEd, LPC · Reviewed November 10, 2026 · 10 min read You hear the same request again, and irritation rises before you can stop it. Then guilt follows: They need me. A faithful Christian should be willing to...
by Stephen A. Luther, MEd, MSEd, LPC | Nov 9, 2026 | Grief and Loss, Pastoral Counseling
Christian grief after suicide loss By Stephen A. Luther, MEd, MSEd, LPC · Reviewed November 9, 2026 · 10 min read The phone call ends, but your mind keeps replaying it. You may be arranging a funeral, answering questions, caring for children, or returning to a house...
by Stephen A. Luther, MEd, MSEd, LPC | Nov 6, 2026 | NuWELL, Pastoral Counseling
Pastor’s wife expectations By Stephen A. Luther, MEd, MSEd, LPC · Reviewed November 6, 2026 · 9 min read The request sounds small: lead the women’s event, attend one more dinner, answer a late-night message, host the visiting speaker, or make sure the children look...
by Stephen A. Luther, MEd, MSEd, LPC | Nov 5, 2026 | Pastoral Counseling
Christian boundaries with in-laws By Stephen A. Luther, MEd, MSEd, LPC · Reviewed November 5, 2026 · 12 min read The holiday plan seemed settled until a parent called. Now one spouse wants to change the date, the other feels pushed aside, and a simple schedule has...
by Stephen A. Luther, MEd, MSEd, LPC | Nov 4, 2026 | Grief and Loss, Pastoral Counseling
Christian grief after miscarriage By Stephen A. Luther, MEd, MSEd, LPC · Reviewed November 4, 2026 · 11 min read The room may look exactly as it did yesterday, but your plans no longer do. A call, an ultrasound, bleeding, or a quiet sentence from a medical...
by Stephen A. Luther, MEd, MSEd, LPC | Nov 3, 2026 | Pastoral Counseling
Partner threatens suicide if I leave By Stephen A. Luther, MEd, MSEd, LPC · Reviewed November 3, 2026 · 10 min read When your partner threatens suicide if you leave, two urgent questions arrive at once: How do you take the threat seriously, and how do you protect your...
by Stephen A. Luther, MEd, MSEd, LPC | Nov 3, 2026 | Holistic Wellness Through Faith-Based Approaches, Pastoral Counseling
Church shunning after leaving By Stephen A. Luther, MEd, MSEd, LPC · Reviewed November 3, 2026 · 11 min read You leave a church, and the silence arrives faster than you expected. Group messages stop. Friends who once prayed with you no longer answer. Someone says they...
by Stephen A. Luther, MEd, MSEd, LPC | Nov 2, 2026 | Pastoral Counseling
Church membership covenant By Stephen A. Luther, MEd, MSEd, LPC · Reviewed November 2, 2026 · 11 min read The membership class is ending when someone places a document in front of you. You agree with the church’s statement of faith. You like the people. Yet the pages...
by Stephen A. Luther, MEd, MSEd, LPC | Oct 29, 2026 | Pastoral Counseling
Spiritual manipulation in Christian dating By Stephen A. Luther, MEd, MSEd, LPC · Reviewed October 29, 2026 · 10 min read The message sounds spiritual and serious: “God told me you are the person I will marry.” At first, it may feel flattering. Then the claim starts...
by Stephen A. Luther, MEd, MSEd, LPC | Oct 28, 2026 | Pastoral Counseling
When siblings disagree about aging parent care By Stephen A. Luther, MEd, MSEd, LPC · Reviewed October 28, 2026 · 10 min read Your sister says Mom is safe at home. Your brother wants assisted living now. You are handling appointments, groceries, and late-night calls...
by Stephen A. Luther, MEd, MSEd, LPC | Oct 27, 2026 | Pastoral Counseling
Pastor broke confidentiality By Stephen A. Luther, MEd, MSEd, LPC · Reviewed October 27, 2026 · 10 min read You told a pastor something private. Later, another person repeated a detail they could only have learned from that conversation. If your pastor broke...
by Stephen A. Luther, MEd, MSEd, LPC | Oct 26, 2026 | Pastoral Counseling
Spiritual abuse in marriage By Stephen A. Luther, MEd, MSEd, LPC · Reviewed October 26, 2026 · 10 min read The Bible is open on the table, but the conversation no longer feels like a shared search for truth. A verse is quoted to end the discussion. A question is...
by Stephen A. Luther, MEd, MSEd, LPC | Oct 23, 2026 | Holistic Wellness Through Faith-Based Approaches, Pastoral Counseling
When to leave a church By Stephen A. Luther, MEd, MSEd, LPC · Reviewed and updated October 23, 2026 · 10 min read You sit through another Sunday with the same question: Am I being impatient, or is it time to go? You may love people in the congregation and still feel...
by Stephen A. Luther, MEd, MSEd, LPC | Oct 22, 2026 | Pastoral Counseling
Emotional affair in marriage By Stephen A. Luther, MEd, MSEd, LPC · Reviewed and updated October 22, 2026 · 11 min read The messages may look ordinary one at a time. Yet the phone turns over when you enter the room. A coworker or online friend now hears the hopes,...
by Stephen A. Luther, MEd, MSEd, LPC | Oct 20, 2026 | Pastoral Counseling
When your adult child cuts you off: faithful next steps By Stephen A. Luther, MEd, MSEd, LPC · Reviewed and updated October 20, 2026 · 11 min read The message is shorter than you expected: “I need space. Please do not contact me.” Or there is no message at all, only...
by Stephen A. Luther, MEd, MSEd, LPC | Oct 19, 2026 | Pastoral Counseling
Financial infidelity in marriage By Stephen A. Luther, MEd, MSEd, LPC · Published October 19, 2026 · 11 min read You open a statement you were not expecting. The balance is larger than your spouse said. Or you discover a credit card, loan, savings account, gambling...
by Stephen A. Luther, MEd, MSEd, LPC | Oct 15, 2026 | NuWELL, Pastoral Counseling
Ministry leadership and care choices By Stephen A. Luther, MEd, MSEd, LPC · Reviewed and updated October 15, 2026 · About 10 minutes The sermon is taking longer than it used to. A late-night message makes your chest tighten. You are physically...
by Stephen A. Luther, MEd, MSEd, LPC | Oct 14, 2026 | Pastoral Counseling
Church hurt and discernment By Stephen A. Luther, MEd, MSEd, LPC · Reviewed and updated October 14, 2026 · 10 min read An apology arrives after months of confusion. The pastor, ministry leader, spouse, parent, or church representative says the right words: “I am...
by Nuwellonline Team | Oct 12, 2026 | Pastoral Counseling
You confess the same concern again. You reread the passage, search one more explanation, or ask another trusted Christian whether you sinned. Relief comes for a few minutes. Then the doubt returns with a new detail: But what if I left something out? What if I did not...
by Stephen A. Luther, MEd, MSEd, LPC | Oct 10, 2026 | Pastoral Counseling
The song starts and the people around you stand to sing. You know the words, but your chest tightens anyway. Your heart races during the prayer, and your hands feel cold. You try to follow the sermon, but one question keeps looping: “If I really trust God, why do I...
by Nuwellonline Team | Oct 10, 2026 | Pastoral Counseling
Your phone lights up again. A parent wants an answer now about where you will spend the holiday, how you will raise your children, whether you should take a job, or why you did not share a decision first. You love them, and you may also feel your shoulders tighten...
by Stephen A. Luther, MEd, MSEd, LPC | Oct 8, 2026 | Pastoral Counseling
Church hurt and discernment By Stephen Luther, MEd, MSEd, LPC · Reviewed and updated October 8, 2026 · 11 min read You may be sitting in a parking lot with the engine off, watching families walk through a church door. Part of you misses worship and community. Another...
by Stephen A. Luther, MEd, MSEd, LPC | Oct 6, 2026 | Pastoral Counseling
Marriage and repair By Stephen Luther, MEd, MSEd, LPC · Reviewed and updated October 6, 2026 · 10 min read The room is quiet after the argument, but the sentence you said is still hanging there. You know it landed hard. You may want to explain what you meant, point...
by Stephen A. Luther, MEd, MSEd, LPC | Oct 5, 2026 | Pastoral Counseling
Marriage and discernment By Stephen Luther, MEd, MSEd, LPC · Reviewed and updated October 5, 2026 · 10 min read You finally say it: “I think we need help.” Your spouse looks away, changes the subject, says counseling is pointless, or tells you that you are the one...
by Stephen A. Luther, MEd, MSEd, LPC | Oct 2, 2026 | Pastoral Counseling
Marriage and trust By Stephen Luther, MEd, MSEd, LPC · Reviewed and updated October 2, 2026 · 10 min read The story has changed again. Maybe it concerns a purchase, a message, a habit, a place your spouse said they were, or a promise they insisted they had kept. The...
by Stephen A. Luther, MEd, MSEd, LPC | Oct 1, 2026 | Pastoral Counseling
Marriage and communication By Stephen Luther, MEd, MSEd, LPC · Reviewed and updated October 7, 2026 · 10 min read The conversation stops, but the conflict does not. Your spouse may leave the room, answer only practical questions, or move through the house as if you...
by Jordan Oliver | Sep 30, 2026 | Christian Life and Business Coaching
Why Bible Verses About Husbands Role Matter in Daily Marriage The Bible calls a husband to lead through Christlike love, not control. The clearest Bible verses about husbands role show a man who serves, protects, provides, listens, and helps his family follow...
by Stephen A. Luther, MEd, MSEd, LPC | Sep 30, 2026 | Pastoral Counseling
Related reading: Newly married? See Christian marriage tips for newlyweds. To practice one hard conversation at a time, see how to listen well. Related reading: To practice speaking clearly and listening well in hard moments, see our guide to healthy Christian...
by Jordan Oliver | Sep 29, 2026 | Christian Life and Business Coaching
What Does the Bible Say About Warfare? The Bible speaks about both physical war and spiritual conflict. In the Old Testament, God gave ancient Israel specific, limited commands for warfare, including rules about offering peace and protecting fruit trees. In the...
by Jordan Oliver | Sep 25, 2026 | Online Christian Counselling
When Faith and Struggle Collide: Finding the Right Support Pastoral care and counseling can feel like a confusing landscape — especially when you’re already hurting and just need to know where to turn. Here’s a quick answer to what most people want...
by Jordan Oliver | Sep 24, 2026 | Pastoral Counseling
When Faith Meets the Pain of a Broken Marriage Christian counseling on divorce is a faith-rooted form of professional support that helps believers navigate one of life’s most painful experiences — the breakdown of a marriage covenant — through the lens of...
by Jordan Oliver | Sep 23, 2026 | Counseling
Why Biblical Advice for Couples Still Changes Marriages Today The most powerful biblical advice for couples can be summed up in a few core principles that Scripture has held out for thousands of years — and they work just as well in 2026 as they ever did. Here...
by Jordan Oliver | Sep 22, 2026 | Christian Life and Business Coaching
Seek God First Before You Build In the modern startup culture of 2026, the “hustle” often takes precedence over “holy.” However, the most successful Bible principles business startup doesn’t begin with a pitch deck; it begins on...
by Jordan Oliver | Sep 17, 2026 | Holistic Wellness Through Faith-Based Approaches
What Is Splankna Therapy and How Does It Work? Splankna therapy is billed by its creators as the first Christian protocol for energy psychology. The mind-body connection is central to how it operates. Practitioners suggest that traumatic life events, unresolved...
by Jordan Oliver | Sep 15, 2026 | Online Christian Counselling
Your Marriage Deserves More Than Six Years of Silence Online marriage counseling connects couples with licensed therapists or Christian pastoral counselors through secure video sessions — from anywhere, on your schedule, without a waiting room. Here is what you...
by Jordan Oliver | Sep 14, 2026 | Grief and Loss, Online Christian Counselling
Understanding Christian Grief Counseling Online When profound loss turns our world upside down, we need more than surface-level comfort. Bereavement challenges our daily routines, emotional stability, and foundational beliefs about life and God. Christian grief...
by Jordan Oliver | Sep 11, 2026 | Christian Life and Business Coaching
You Were Created for More: A Guide to Finding the Right Business Coach for Female Entrepreneurs A business coach for female entrepreneurs is a professional partner who helps women-led businesses grow — by combining strategic planning, mindset work, and...
by Jordan Oliver | Sep 10, 2026 | Holistic Wellness Through Faith-Based Approaches
Understanding the Splankna Therapy Biblical Approach When we talk about the splankna therapy biblical approach, we are looking at a modality that refuses to separate our spiritual health from our physical and emotional well-being. At NuWell Online, we believe...
by Jordan Oliver | Sep 8, 2026 | Pastoral Counseling
Find Purpose Through Faithful Online Pastoral Support An online purpose pastor helps you connect biblical truth to your real life, so you can move from feeling stuck to taking faithful next steps. Unlike a role focused mainly on livestream hosting or...
by Stephen A. Luther, MEd, MSEd, LPC | Sep 4, 2026 | Grief and Loss
Grief and faith By Stephen Luther, MEd, MSEd, LPC · Reviewed and updated October 8, 2026 · 9 min read A chair is empty. A familiar voice is gone. Worship songs may catch in your throat, and prayers that once came easily may feel impossible to form. Then another burden...
by Jordan Oliver | Sep 3, 2026 | Counseling
When Faith and Marriage Collide: What You Need to Know About Christian Counseling Divorce Christian counseling divorce is a faith-integrated approach to navigating one of life’s most painful experiences — combining biblical truth, emotional support, and...
by Stephen A. Luther, MEd, MSEd, LPC | Sep 2, 2026 | Holistic Wellness Through Faith-Based Approaches
Faith and emotional health By Stephen Luther, MEd, MSEd, LPC · Reviewed and updated October 7, 2026 · 8 min read A friend from small group has stopped showing up. A church member mentions, almost in passing, that she has not slept well in weeks. A parent in your...
by Jordan Oliver | Sep 1, 2026 | Online Christian Counselling
Find Faith-Based Support With an Online Grief Pastor An online grief pastor provides Christian spiritual care for people facing loss through secure virtual conversations, prayer, Scripture, and practical support. To get started, look for a pastor or pastoral...
by Jordan Oliver | Aug 28, 2026 | Counseling
The Shepherd Needs a Shepherd: Why Counseling Pastors Matters Counseling for pastors is specialized, faith-integrated mental health support designed to help ministry leaders process burnout, emotional exhaustion, marriage strain, and spiritual struggle in a...
by Jordan Oliver | Aug 27, 2026 | Online Christian Counselling
Find Faith-Based Support for Anxiety Online To find an online anxiety pastor, look for a Christian pastoral counselor who listens without shame, uses Scripture with care, and knows when to recommend licensed mental health support. Before booking, ask about...
by Jordan Oliver | Aug 26, 2026 | Pastoral Counseling
Faith and emotional honesty By Jordan Oliver · Reviewed by Stephen A. Luther, MEd, MSEd, LPC · Updated October 16, 2026 · 10 min read You pray about the hurt. You quote a verse. You tell yourself to be grateful, forgive, or “leave it with God.” Those practices may be...
by Jordan Oliver | Aug 25, 2026 | Christian Life and Business Coaching
Historical and Textual Exegesis of Philippians 2:3-4 Philippians 2:3-4 calls believers to reject selfish ambition and empty conceit in favor of humble, other-centered love and Christian unity. In these verses, the Apostle Paul instructs believers to count...
by Jordan Oliver | Aug 21, 2026 | Pastoral Counseling
How to Find a Trustworthy Online Christian Pastor A online christian pastor can offer Bible-rooted prayer, spiritual guidance, and pastoral counseling through secure video calls, live services, and online community spaces. The right fit should be clear about...
by Jordan Oliver | Aug 19, 2026 | Counseling
Church hurt and spiritual abuse By Jordan Oliver · Reviewed by Stephen Luther, MEd, MSEd, LPC · Updated October 6, 2026 · 9 min read You may still believe in God and still feel your chest tighten when a worship song starts. You may miss church and dread it at the same...
by Jordan Oliver | Aug 17, 2026 | Pastoral Counseling
Common Spiritual Warfare Fronts Facing Ministry Leaders Ministry leaders do not fight their battles on an isolated mountaintop; they wage them on the front lines of daily pastoral care, staff management, and sermon preparation. Becoming a pastor often feels...
by Jordan Oliver | Aug 14, 2026 | Pastoral Counseling
You Don’t Have to Grieve Alone: What Christian Grief Support Can Do for You Christian grief support brings together the healing power of faith, Scripture, and community to help you process loss in a way that secular counseling alone often cannot reach. If...
by Jordan Oliver | Aug 12, 2026 | Counseling
When Grief Meets Faith: Why a Christian Grief Coach Can Change Everything A Christian grief coach offers something that general counseling often cannot — a path through loss that is grounded in Biblical truth, spiritual hope, and the belief that healing is...
by Stephen A. Luther, MEd, MSEd, LPC | Aug 12, 2026 | Holistic Wellness Through Faith-Based Approaches, Pastoral Counseling
Church hurt and discernment By Stephen A. Luther, MEd, MSEd, LPC · Reviewed and updated October 9, 2026 · 11 min read You leave a meeting replaying every word. A leader dismissed your concern, a friend repeated something you shared privately, or a church decision left...
by Jordan Oliver | Aug 11, 2026 | Christian Life and Business Coaching
What Does the Bible Say About Selfishness in Marriage as a Threat to Unity? Marriage is designed by God to be a harmonious sanctuary of unity and mutual growth. However, when self-centeredness enters the dynamic, it breaks down trust and emotional safety. To...
by Stephen A. Luther, MEd, MSEd, LPC | Aug 6, 2026 | Pastoral Counseling
Faith and marriage By Stephen Luther, MEd, MSEd, LPC · Reviewed and updated October 7, 2026 · 9 min read You still love each other, but conversations keep turning into arguments, or into silence. One of you has suggested “getting help,” and now you are both wondering...
by Stephen A. Luther, MEd, MSEd, LPC | Aug 5, 2026 | Pastoral Counseling
Church hurt and spiritual abuse By Stephen Luther, MEd, MSEd, LPC · Reviewed and updated October 6, 2026 · 10 min read A pastor can preach compelling sermons, grow a church, and still use spiritual authority in harmful ways. The clearest warning is usually not one...
by Jordan Oliver | Aug 4, 2026 | Christian Life and Business Coaching
What the Bible Says About Greed and Covetousness Greed, or covetousness, is an insatiable craving for more money, possessions, status, or security than God has given. Scripture treats it seriously. Jesus warns, “Watch out! Be on your guard against all kinds of...
by Jordan Oliver | Aug 3, 2026 | Christian Life and Business Coaching
What Is Biblical Spiritual Warfare? To understand how to win, we must first know what we are up against. Biblical spiritual warfare refers to the ongoing conflict between God’s realm of light and Satan’s forces of darkness. As early as the 1600s,...
by Jordan Oliver | Jul 31, 2026 | Pastoral Counseling
You Were Created for More Than Just Surviving — Here’s How to Find the Right Biblical Counselor Online Finding a biblical counselor online is one of the most meaningful steps you can take toward emotional, spiritual, and relational healing — all from the...
by Jordan Oliver | Jul 30, 2026 | Christian Life and Business Coaching
Why the Layers of Communication Shape Every Relationship You Have Understanding the layers of communication can change the way you connect with the people who matter most to you. Most of us assume communication is simply about the words we use. But it goes much...
by Jordan Oliver | Jul 27, 2026 | Christian Life and Business Coaching
Why Prayer to Fight Spiritual Battles Is Your Most Powerful Weapon Prayer to fight spiritual battles is how Christians actively resist evil, claim God’s protection, and walk in the victory Christ has already won. Here is a quick overview of the most...
by Jordan Oliver | Jul 24, 2026 | Christian Life and Business Coaching
Why So Many Christians Struggle With Saying No — And What the Bible Actually Says If you’re looking for christian boundary setting help, here is a quick overview of what the Bible teaches and where to start: Boundaries are biblical. Jesus regularly...
by Jordan Oliver | Jul 23, 2026 | Christian Life and Business Coaching
You’re Planning a Wedding — But Are You Preparing for a Marriage? Christian pre wedding counseling is a structured, faith-rooted process that helps engaged couples build a strong biblical foundation before saying “I do.” Here’s a quick...
by Jordan Oliver | Jul 22, 2026 | Counseling
Church hurt and spiritual abuse By Jordan Oliver · Reviewed by Stephen Luther, MEd, MSEd, LPC · Updated October 6, 2026 · 10 min read When you have been hurt by a church, a ministry, or someone who used Scripture to control you, asking for help can feel risky. You may...
by Jordan Oliver | Jul 21, 2026 | Christian Life and Business Coaching
The Ancient Warning That Still Hits Home Today The biblical command to do not esteem yourself higher than you ought comes from Romans 12:3, where the Apostle Paul writes: “Do not think of yourself more highly than you ought, but rather think of yourself...
by Jordan Oliver | Jul 20, 2026 | Online Christian Counselling
The Battle Is Real: Why You Need Scriptures on Spiritual Battles The most powerful scriptures on spiritual battles are listed below — so if you need them right now, here they are: Scripture Core Truth Ephesians 6:10-12 Our struggle is against spiritual forces,...
by Jordan Oliver | Jul 15, 2026 | Online Christian Counselling
When Your Marriage Needs More Than Advice — It Needs Healing Faith based marriage counseling online brings together the power of Biblical truth, licensed clinical care, and the convenience of virtual sessions — so you and your spouse can find real healing...
by Jordan Oliver | Jul 14, 2026 | Christian Life and Business Coaching
Why So Many Couples Struggle to Understand Biblical Marriage Roles Husband and wife biblical roles are one of the most searched — and most misunderstood — topics in Christian marriage today. Here is a quick summary of what the Bible teaches: Spouse Core Calling...
by Jordan Oliver | Jul 13, 2026 | Christian Life and Business Coaching
Why Spiritual Warfare Victory Is the Key to Living the Life God Designed for You Achieving spiritual warfare victory is possible — and it begins the moment you understand what you’re actually fighting. Here’s a quick overview of how believers gain...
by Jordan Oliver | Jul 7, 2026 | Christian Life and Business Coaching
When Grief Becomes a Battle: Understanding Grief Counseling and Spiritual Warfare Grief counseling for spiritual warfare addresses something many Christians sense but struggle to name — that the pain of loss can open a door to something darker than sadness...
by Jordan Oliver | Jul 7, 2026 | Pastoral Counseling
Church hurt and spiritual abuse By Jordan Oliver · Reviewed by Stephen Luther, MEd, MSEd, LPC · Updated October 6, 2026 · 9 min read Many people come to faith looking for comfort, community, and meaning. When a pastor, spouse, parent, or spiritual leader twists that...
by Jordan Oliver | Jul 3, 2026 | Christian Life and Business Coaching
Why the “Don’t Try to Impress Others” Bible Verse Still Speaks to Us Today The don’t try to impress others bible verse — Philippians 2:3 — is one of the most direct and convicting passages in the New Testament. Here is what it says:...
by Jordan Oliver | Jun 30, 2026 | Counseling
Every Marriage Was Created for More: A Guide to Christian Counseling for Couples Christian counseling for marriages is one of the most powerful steps a couple can take toward lasting healing and deeper connection. Whether you’re newlyweds hitting...
by Jordan Oliver | Jun 26, 2026 | Christian Life and Business Coaching
What Is the Biblical Role of a Husband? (A Quick Answer) What is the biblical role of a husband is one of the most searched questions among Christian men who genuinely want to lead their families well — and for good reason. Scripture doesn’t leave men...
by Jordan Oliver | Jun 25, 2026 | Christian Life and Business Coaching
Why Understanding Spiritual Warfare Can Change Everything About Your Faith An Essential Guide to Spiritual Warfare Spiritual warfare is the ongoing battle every Christian faces against forces that oppose God — including Satan, demonic influence, and the pull of...
by Jordan Oliver | Jun 24, 2026 | Christian Life and Business Coaching
When You Need Comfort Now: The Best Short Bible Verses for Strength Looking for a short bible verse for comfort and strength right now? Here are the most powerful ones to hold onto: Verse Theme Key Words Isaiah 41:10 Fear & God’s presence “I am...
by Jordan Oliver | Jun 19, 2026 | Christian Life and Business Coaching
The Trap Most of Us Don’t See Coming Selfish ambition is one of the most subtle — and destructive — forces a person can face. It doesn’t always look like greed or pride. Sometimes it looks like drive, determination, or even leadership. And...
by Stephen A. Luther, MEd, MSEd, LPC | Jun 17, 2026 | Christian Life and Business Coaching
Scripture and spiritual growth By Stephen Luther, MEd, MSEd, LPC · Reviewed and updated October 2, 2026 · 8 min read You know a belief is not true, yet it keeps directing your reactions. You pray, promise to change, and still return to the same fear, bitterness,...
by Stephen A. Luther, MEd, MSEd, LPC | Jun 16, 2026 | Christian Life and Business Coaching
Scripture and spiritual discernment By Stephen Luther, MEd, MSEd, LPC · Reviewed and updated October 5, 2026 · 10 min read Sometimes the struggle feels spiritual because it is spiritual. Temptation keeps returning. A lie about God has become familiar. A relationship...
by Jordan Oliver | Jun 15, 2026 | Grief and Loss
When Grief Feels Unbearable: What the Bible Says About Comfort in Loss Finding a bible verse comfort in time of loss can be one of the most powerful steps toward healing when words of your own simply fail. Here are some of the most comforting Bible verses for...
by Jordan Oliver | Jun 12, 2026 | Holistic Wellness Through Faith-Based Approaches
When Marriage Feels Heavy: What Faith Based Relationship Therapy Can Do for You Faith based relationship therapy is a form of couples counseling that weaves Christian beliefs, Scripture, and prayer into evidence-based clinical practice — helping couples find...
by Jordan Oliver | Jun 11, 2026 | Christian Life and Business Coaching
Why the Biblical Responsibilities of a Husband Still Matter Today Understanding the biblical responsibilities of a husband is one of the most important things a Christian man can do — for his marriage, his family, and his walk with God. Here is a quick overview...
by Stephen A. Luther, MEd, MSEd, LPC | Jun 10, 2026 | Grief and Loss, Pastoral Counseling
Grief and loss By Stephen Luther, MEd, MSEd, LPC · Reviewed and updated October 6, 2026 · 9 min read The empty side of the bed is only one absence. There may also be one coffee cup, one voice missing from ordinary decisions, and a future that no longer looks the way...
by Jordan Oliver | Jun 9, 2026 | Christian Life and Business Coaching
Why Comforting Scripture During Difficult Times Still Matters Today Finding comforting scripture during difficult times can be one of the most powerful steps you take toward healing — and you’re not alone in reaching for God’s Word when life feels...
by Stephen A. Luther, MEd, MSEd, LPC | Jun 4, 2026 | Christian Life and Business Coaching
Faith and everyday life By Stephen Luther, MEd, MSEd, LPC · Reviewed and updated October 2, 2026 · 8 min read You agree to one more favor even though you are exhausted. Later, resentment rises. Then you wonder whether saying no would have been selfish. Or perhaps the...
by Stephen A. Luther, MEd, MSEd, LPC | Jun 2, 2026 | Grief and Loss
Grief and Scripture By Stephen Luther, MEd, MSEd, LPC · Reviewed and updated September 30, 2026 · 11 min read When someone you love dies, even familiar prayers can feel out of reach. You may not have the energy to read a whole chapter, or the...
by Jordan Oliver | May 28, 2026 | Christian Life and Business Coaching
What the Bible Really Says About the Role of a Husband The biblical role of a husband is one of the most searched — and most misunderstood — topics in Christian marriage today. At its core, Scripture calls husbands to a life of sacrificial love, servant...
by Jordan Oliver | May 26, 2026 | Pastoral Counseling
When Grief Hits Home: Why Scripture Matters After Losing a Parent Bible verses for grief of a parent can be a lifeline when the loss feels too heavy to carry alone. Here are some of the most comforting scriptures to hold onto right now: Verse What It Offers...
by Jordan Oliver | May 25, 2026 | Online Christian Counselling
When the Battle Feels Unwinnable: Why People Are Turning to Online Counseling for Spiritual Oppression Online counseling for spiritual oppression is professional, faith-integrated support that helps Christians identify and overcome the enemy’s influence...
by Jordan Oliver | May 21, 2026 | Christian Life and Business Coaching
Why So Many Christian Entrepreneurs Are Turning to Faith-Based Mentorship Christian business mentors are coaches, advisors, or peer leaders who help you grow your business and your faith at the same time — combining practical strategy with biblical wisdom. Here...
by Jordan Oliver | May 20, 2026 | Holistic Wellness Through Faith-Based Approaches
When the Weight Won’t Lift: Why Prayer for Overcoming Depression Matters Prayer for overcoming depression is one of the most searched spiritual needs among Christians today — and for good reason. Depression is real, it is heavy, and it does not always...
by Jordan Oliver | May 18, 2026 | Pastoral Counseling
When Grief Feels Too Heavy to Carry Alone Biblical grief support services are structured, faith-rooted resources — including support groups, pastoral counseling, devotionals, and online programs — that help Christians process loss through Scripture, community,...
by Jordan Oliver | May 15, 2026 | Christian Life and Business Coaching
When Life Gets Hard, Scripture Offers Real Hope Verses of comfort in hard times remind us that we are not alone — and the Bible is full of them. Here are some of the most powerful ones to turn to right now: Verse Core Promise Psalm 34:18 God is near to the...
by Jordan Oliver | May 14, 2026 | Christian Life and Business Coaching
Why Christian Marriage Vision Planning Changes Everything Christian marriage vision planning is the intentional, faith-rooted process of seeking God’s direction together as a couple — and then building a shared roadmap for your marriage around that...
by Jordan Oliver | May 13, 2026 | Counseling
Defining Trauma: Biblical Perspectives vs. Secular Psychology When we talk about biblical counseling for trauma, we must first define what trauma actually is. Secular psychology, as described by the American Psychological Association, often defines trauma by...
by Jordan Oliver | May 12, 2026 | Online Christian Counselling
When Your Marriage Needs More Than Advice: Finding Real Help Online Online Christian marriage help connects couples with licensed counselors, pastoral coaches, and faith-based programs — all through secure video sessions you can access from home. Marriage is...
by Jordan Oliver | May 11, 2026 | Pastoral Counseling
When Your Marriage Needs More Than Good Intentions Faith-based couples counseling brings together Biblical truth, professional therapy, and evidence-based science to help Christian couples heal, reconnect, and build marriages that last. Here’s what you...
by Jordan Oliver | May 4, 2026 | Pastoral Counseling
The Silent Crisis: Why Counseling for Pastors Is Essential in 2026 Counseling for pastors is specialized mental health and spiritual support designed to help ministry leaders navigate burnout, isolation, depression, marriage strain, and the unique pressures of...
by Jordan Oliver | May 1, 2026 | Christian Life and Business Coaching
When Grief Steals Your Words, Scripture Speaks Bible verses comfort grieving hearts in ways that human words simply cannot. Here are the most powerful scriptures people turn to in their darkest moments: Psalm 34:18 — “The Lord is close to the...
by Jordan Oliver | Apr 29, 2026 | Christian Life and Business Coaching
What the Bible Really Says About Being a Good Husband The characteristics of a good husband according to the bible are not vague ideals — Scripture gives us a clear, practical roadmap that is just as relevant in April 2026 as it was when first written. Here is...
by Jordan Oliver | Apr 29, 2026 | Christian Life and Business Coaching
When Faith and Divorce Collide: Why a Christian Coach for Divorce Changes Everything A Christian coach for divorce is a certified professional who guides you through the emotional, practical, and spiritual dimensions of divorce using Biblical truth, prayer, and...
by Jordan Oliver | Apr 27, 2026 | Christian Life and Business Coaching
Faith, purpose, and practical action By Jordan Oliver · Reviewed by Stephen A. Luther, MEd, MSEd, LPC · Updated October 16, 2026 · 10 min read You can know what matters to you and still feel unable to move. Maybe a career decision has stayed open for months. A habit...
by Stephen A. Luther, MEd, MSEd, LPC | Apr 13, 2026 | Pastoral Counseling, Uncategorized
Finding Hope: A Guide to Christian Mental Health Counseling Are you looking for help and assuming your only real choice is between “talk to my pastor” or “see a therapist”? That gap in thinking keeps many Christians stuck. Some need prayer-centered support for grief,...
by Stephen A. Luther, MEd, MSEd, LPC | Apr 10, 2026 | Uncategorized
You may be replaying a sermon, a leadership meeting, a counseling conversation, or a quiet betrayal that left you doubting people you once trusted. Church hurt can unsettle both your inner life and your relationship with God. It often touches grief, anxiety, shame,...
by Stephen A. Luther, MEd, MSEd, LPC | Apr 9, 2026 | Christian Life and Business Coaching
Faith, purpose, and growth By Stephen Luther, MEd, MSEd, LPC · Reviewed and updated October 2, 2026 · 8 min read Many women do not need another inspirational message. They need room to think clearly, name what is not working, decide what faithfulness looks like in...
by Stephen A. Luther, MEd, MSEd, LPC | Apr 8, 2026 | Uncategorized
You know you are called to forgive. You may even believe forgiveness is one of the clearest marks of a faithful Christian life. But what happens when the offense was not small, the wound still aches, and your heart does not feel ready? That is where many believers get...
by Stephen A. Luther, MEd, MSEd, LPC | Apr 7, 2026 | NuWELL, Pastoral Counseling, Uncategorized
Have you ever replayed a conversation and thought, “If only I could take those words back”? Many Christians approach speech problems as if the answer were “try harder” or “talk less.” Scripture goes deeper. The Bible treats the tongue as a window into the heart, a...
by Stephen A. Luther, MEd, MSEd, LPC | Apr 6, 2026 | Online Christian Counselling, Pastoral Counseling
Marriage and intimacy By Stephen Luther, MEd, MSEd, LPC · Reviewed and updated October 2, 2026 · 8 min read Sex can be one of the most joyful and one of the most tender parts of marriage. It brings bodies, beliefs, expectations, health, history, desire,...
by Stephen A. Luther, MEd, MSEd, LPC | Apr 3, 2026 | Online Christian Counselling
Faith and emotional health By Stephen Luther, MEd, MSEd, LPC · Reviewed and updated October 2, 2026 · 7 min read Your mind will not slow down. You pray, read the familiar verses, and still wake up with your chest tight and your thoughts racing ahead to everything that...
by Stephen A. Luther, MEd, MSEd, LPC | Apr 2, 2026 | Holistic Wellness Through Faith-Based Approaches, Pastoral Counseling
Faith and spiritual growth By Stephen A. Luther, MEd, MSEd, LPC · Reviewed and updated October 14, 2026 · 10 min read You open your Bible, but the words do not seem to land. Prayer turns into a list you rush through. You attend church and still feel far from God. Then...
by Stephen A. Luther, MEd, MSEd, LPC | Apr 1, 2026 | Uncategorized
Imagine you’re on a journey toward a destination God has set for you, but the path forward feels overgrown and uncertain. Faith based life coaching offers a trusted guide who uses both a map (Biblical truth) and a compass (proven coaching techniques) to help you...
by Stephen A. Luther, MEd, MSEd, LPC | Mar 31, 2026 | Pastoral Counseling
Biblical Restoration Care By Stephen A. Luther, MEd, MSEd, LPC · Reviewed and updated October 14, 2026 · 11 min read A job ends. A relationship changes. A leader rejects you. One regretted choice starts speaking for your whole life: I am a failure. I am unwanted. I am...
by Brittani Wingate | Jun 9, 2025 | Uncategorized
Healing from Narcissistic Parenting Growing up with a narcissistic parent can leave deep emotional scars that linger into adulthood. The constant need for validation, manipulation, or neglect can shape how you view yourself and the world. At NuWell, we understand the...
by Brittani Wingate | Jun 9, 2025 | Uncategorized
Co-Parenting with a Narcissist: Staying Strong for Your Child Co-parenting with your narcissist ex-partner is challenging. Their self-centered behavior can create chaos. Yet, you can be a stable, loving anchor for your child. At NuWell, we help parents navigate this...
by Stephen A. Luther, MEd, MSEd, LPC | Jun 9, 2025 | Uncategorized
Faith and family By Stephen A. Luther, MEd, MSEd, LPC · Reviewed and updated October 23, 2026 · 8 min read Bedtime has become a battle. Your teenager barely speaks to you, or your younger child’s meltdowns are getting bigger instead of smaller. You love your kids, you...
by Brittani Wingate | May 5, 2025 | Uncategorized
Effective Therapy Strategies for Adults with ADHD Living with ADHD as an adult can often feel like navigating a relentless storm of distractions, but finding your focus is not an impossible quest. Unlocking Focus: Effective Therapy Strategies for Adults with ADHD...
by Brittani Wingate | Apr 22, 2025 | Uncategorized
7 Powerful Strategies for Overcoming Grief Grief is an unwelcome companion that many of us face at some point in our lives. Its weight can feel unbearable, casting shadows over our daily existence and leaving us feeling lost and isolated. Yet, in the midst of...
by Stephen A. Luther, MEd, MSEd, LPC | Jul 8, 2024 | Pastoral Counseling
Faith, work, and rest By Stephen Luther, MEd, MSEd, LPC · Reviewed and updated October 8, 2026 · 9 min read You used to start the week with energy. Now Sunday night brings dread. You answer messages late, forget things you never used to forget, and feel strangely numb...
by Stephen A. Luther, MEd, MSEd, LPC | Jun 2, 2024 | Online Christian Counselling
Faith and recovery By Stephen Luther, MEd, MSEd, LPC · Reviewed and updated October 7, 2026 · 8 min read You said the last time was the last time. Now the bottle, pill, or drug is back at the center of the day, and secrecy is taking more energy than honesty. Faith may...
by Stephen A. Luther, MEd, MSEd, LPC | Jan 18, 2024 | Holistic Wellness Through Faith-Based Approaches, Uncategorized
Habits and healing By Stephen Luther, MEd, MSEd, LPC · Reviewed and updated October 6, 2026 · 10 min read You meant to respond differently. Then criticism, loneliness, an unfinished task, a tempting notification, or fear showed up. Before long, you were hiding,...
by Stephen A. Luther, MEd, MSEd, LPC | Jan 16, 2024 | Holistic Wellness Through Faith-Based Approaches
Faith and trauma By Stephen Luther, MEd, MSEd, LPC · Reviewed and updated September 30, 2026 · 9 min read You may still believe in God and yet freeze when you try to pray. Worship music may stir grief instead of comfort. A Bible passage that...
by Stephen A. Luther, MEd, MSEd, LPC | Jan 12, 2024 | Christian Life and Business Coaching
Christian procrastination and faithful follow-through By Stephen A. Luther, MEd, MSEd, LPC · Reviewed and updated October 20, 2026 · 9 min read The task is open on your screen, but your hand reaches for the phone. You answer one easy message, reorganize the list, and...
by Stephen A. Luther, MEd, MSEd, LPC | Jan 9, 2024 | Christian Life and Business Coaching
Introduction In a world where diversity should be celebrated, discrimination remains a harsh reality for many. It’s an issue that transcends boundaries, affecting individuals across various facets of society. At NuWell Online Counseling & Coaching, we...
by Stephen A. Luther, MEd, MSEd, LPC | Jan 2, 2024 | Pastoral Counseling
Cold and flu season arrives, and everyone around you starts talking about germs. Someone coughs two rows back at church. A coworker mentions a stomach bug going around. For most people, that means washing hands a little more often. For some Christians, it sets off a...
by Stephen A. Luther, MEd, MSEd, LPC | Dec 22, 2023 | NuWELL
Introduction: Christmas is a time of wonder, a season that sparkles with joy and goodwill. Amidst the festive lights and merry songs, there’s a unique warmth that envelops us, reminding us of the beauty and hope that life holds. This season, let’s embrace...
by Stephen A. Luther, MEd, MSEd, LPC | Dec 18, 2023 | Holistic Wellness Through Faith-Based Approaches
As the festive season of Christmas approaches, many of us find ourselves caught in a whirlwind of preparations, parties, and family gatherings. While this time of year is often portrayed as joyful and exciting, it can also bring about feelings of stress, anxiety, and...
by Stephen A. Luther, MEd, MSEd, LPC | Dec 12, 2023 | Online Christian Counselling
Faith and marriage By Stephen Luther, MEd, MSEd, LPC · Reviewed and updated October 7, 2026 · 8 min read A disagreement about money has lasted three days. One spouse says, “Someone has to make the final decision.” The other wonders whether speaking honestly is...
by Stephen A. Luther, MEd, MSEd, LPC | Dec 6, 2023 | Online Christian Counselling
Jesus Christ as the Model for a Christian Husband In Christian marriages, Jesus Christ serves as the ultimate model for husbands to emulate. His teachings and example provide invaluable guidance on how husbands should love, lead, and prioritize their wives....
by Stephen A. Luther, MEd, MSEd, LPC | Dec 4, 2023 | Holistic Wellness Through Faith-Based Approaches
Christian loneliness during the holidays By Stephen A. Luther, MEd, MSEd, LPC · Reviewed and updated October 21, 2026 · 8 min read The room may be full and you still feel unseen. Or the house may be quiet because family is far away, a relationship changed, or someone...
by Stephen A. Luther, MEd, MSEd, LPC | Nov 22, 2023 | Holistic Wellness Through Faith-Based Approaches
Christian holiday stress By Stephen A. Luther, MEd, MSEd, LPC · Reviewed and updated October 22, 2026 · 7 min read The calendar is full before December begins. Travel costs more than expected. A relative is already asking where you will spend the day. Church, school,...
by Stephen A. Luther, MEd, MSEd, LPC | Nov 20, 2023 | Online Christian Counselling
In recent years, there’s been a growing interest in the fields of coaching and professional counseling. Both domains, while distinct, offer valuable approaches to personal and professional growth. Imagine the possibilities when they’re combined! In this...
by Stephen A. Luther, MEd, MSEd, LPC | Nov 17, 2023 | Grief and Loss, Pastoral Counseling
Holidays after divorce By Stephen A. Luther, MEd, MSEd, LPC · Reviewed and updated October 26, 2026 · 9 min read The first holiday after divorce can make ordinary decisions feel loaded. Who has the children on Christmas morning? Which invitation should you accept?...
by Stephen A. Luther, MEd, MSEd, LPC | Nov 15, 2023 | Pastoral Counseling
Christian gratitude By Stephen A. Luther, MEd, MSEd, LPC · Reviewed and updated November 4, 2026 · 10 min read Your day may contain real gifts and real pain at the same time. A friend checks in. The rent is still due. A prayer is answered. A diagnosis remains. You may...
by Stephen A. Luther, MEd, MSEd, LPC | Nov 13, 2023 | Pastoral Counseling
Understanding Pastoral Counseling Pastoral counseling is an approach to therapy that blends psychological and theological principles to provide individuals with support from a faith-based viewpoint. Pastoral counseling draws upon both theories of psychology as...
by Stephen A. Luther, MEd, MSEd, LPC | Nov 10, 2023 | Pastoral Counseling
Nurturing the Shepherds of Faith In the ever-evolving landscape of pastoral counseling, the importance of providing support to pastors as patients cannot be overstated. Pastors, who are the spiritual shepherds guiding their flocks, also need a guiding hand from...
by Stephen A. Luther, MEd, MSEd, LPC | Nov 6, 2023 | Pastoral Counseling
Biblical Restoration Care By Stephen Luther, MEd, MSEd, LPC · Reviewed and updated September 30, 2026 · 9 min read You replay the conversation and know you were wrong. An apology may be needed. But within minutes, a specific regret becomes a sweeping verdict: I...
by Stephen A. Luther, MEd, MSEd, LPC | Nov 2, 2023 | California
Pastoral Counseling: Providing Emotional and Spiritual Support Pastoral counseling is a form of counseling that combines psychological principles with spiritual guidance. It takes into consideration the emotional, mental, and spiritual aspects of an individual’s...
by Stephen A. Luther, MEd, MSEd, LPC | Nov 2, 2023 | Pastoral Counseling
Pastoral counseling basics By Stephen Luther, MEd, MSEd, LPC · Reviewed and updated October 2, 2026 · 7 min read Maybe a friend suggested you “talk to someone,” and you want that someone to understand your faith. Maybe you are carrying grief, guilt, a strained...
by Stephen A. Luther, MEd, MSEd, LPC | Nov 1, 2023 | Pastoral Counseling
Faith and emotional health By Stephen Luther, MEd, MSEd, LPC · Reviewed and updated October 7, 2026 · 8 min read You pray and feel nothing. Work that used to be manageable now takes every bit of energy. Sleep is changing, messages go unanswered, and shame adds a...
by Stephen A. Luther, MEd, MSEd, LPC | Nov 1, 2023 | Pastoral Counseling
Choosing the right care By Stephen Luther, MEd, MSEd, LPC · Reviewed and updated October 2, 2026 · 8 min read You may know that your faith belongs in the conversation, but still be unsure what kind of conversation you need. Is the issue a spiritual question, a painful...
by Stephen A. Luther, MEd, MSEd, LPC | Oct 31, 2023 | Counseling
Halloween – a time of year when the world delights in tales of ghouls, ghosts, and goblins. Streets are adorned with carved pumpkins, haunted house decorations, and children dress in costumes ranging from the adorable to the terrifying. It’s an occasion filled...
by Aki Jamal Durham | Oct 25, 2023 | Online Christian Counselling
In my previous blog post, we embarked on a journey to explore how reading fiction can increase empathy and why this is particularly relevant to the field of Christian counseling. Today, I want to dive deeper into the therapeutic world of bibliotherapy, focusing on the...
by Aki Jamal Durham | Oct 25, 2023 | Online Christian Counselling
I recently had the good fortune to be offered a new perspective on empathy. As a counselor providing online Christian counseling, it is something I think about regularly. I am a natural empath, so I usually find myself feeling more connected to other empathetic...
by Stephen A. Luther, MEd, MSEd, LPC | Sep 20, 2023 | Online Christian Counselling
The Future of Online Christian Counseling: Trends, Innovations, and potential Pitfalls I began my journey towards becoming a Christian counselor with one request of God – that He allow me to reach around the globe with the healing power He would give to others through...
by Stephen A. Luther, MEd, MSEd, LPC | Sep 15, 2023 | Christian Life and Business Coaching
In the turbulent waters of divorce, you may find yourself caught between who you are versus who you want to be. As we traverse this difficult path, it is pivotal to remember that, “The difference between who you are and who you want to be is what you do,”...
by Stephen A. Luther, MEd, MSEd, LPC | Sep 6, 2023 | Online Christian Counselling
Updated October 9, 2026Reviewed by Stephen A. Luther, MEd, MSEd, LPCNon-clinical pastoral scopeYou may be carrying grief, relationship strain, shame, spiritual confusion, or a decision that will not leave you alone. The concern is real, but the care landscape is...
by Stephen A. Luther, MEd, MSEd, LPC | Sep 6, 2023 | Online Christian Counselling
Updated October 9, 2026Reviewed by Stephen A. Luther, MEd, MSEd, LPCNon-clinical pastoral scopeYou may know you want help, yet still be unsure what kind. You want room for Scripture and prayer, but you do not want your pain reduced to a Bible verse. You want practical...
by Stephen A. Luther, MEd, MSEd, LPC | Aug 29, 2023 | Christian Life and Business Coaching
Introduction Childhood obesity is an ongoing public health crisis with significant ramifications beyond physical wellbeing. While much attention has been focused on its physical effects like increased risk for diabetes, heart issues, and high blood pressure–its...
by Stephen A. Luther, MEd, MSEd, LPC | Aug 29, 2023 | Christian Life and Business Coaching
Introduction Our world sells happiness as the ultimate goal; therefore it’s vital that Christians understand what happiness really entails from a biblical standpoint. While some might conflate happiness with constant states of blissful elation, biblical joy...
by Stephen A. Luther, MEd, MSEd, LPC | Aug 24, 2023 | Pastoral Counseling
In recent times, we’ve seen more division in political views, causing heightened tension and unease surrounding political dialogues. This tension, termed “political stress,” has been challenging for many. Similar to general stress symptoms, political...
by Stephen A. Luther, MEd, MSEd, LPC | Aug 23, 2023 | Online Christian Counselling
Faith-centered counseling stands as one such avenue offering spiritual enrichment, deeper self-understanding and the integration of faith with mental wellbeing that outstrips mere financial benefits. While its cost effectiveness cannot be denied, its true worth lies...
by Stephen A. Luther, MEd, MSEd, LPC | Aug 22, 2023 | California
California is the land of beaches, tech innovation, film stars, and endless highways. It’s a place of dreams where the hustle and bustle never seem to end. Yet, beneath the golden sun and the palm-tree-lined streets, there lies a deeper quest — the...
by Stephen A. Luther, MEd, MSEd, LPC | Aug 22, 2023 | California
California, with its iconic coastline, bustling cities, and world-renowned attractions, is deemed as the golden state of opportunities. But amidst this allure, Californians find themselves facing the age-old human challenges of stress, anxiety, and the need for...
by Stephen A. Luther, MEd, MSEd, LPC | Aug 18, 2023 | Online Christian Counselling
[vc_row][vc_column][vc_column_text] Facing Life’s Hurdles Life is a beautiful journey, filled with highs and lows. Everyone, regardless of where they come from or what they believe in, will face challenges—be it personal loss, health concerns, relationship...
by Stephen A. Luther, MEd, MSEd, LPC | Aug 14, 2023 | NuWELL
Hello and welcome! Every journey starts with a single step and by being here, you’ve already taken that initial stride towards transformation. I’m Kathy, and my mission is to guide women through the storms of life, leading them to a successful and vibrant...
by Stephen A. Luther, MEd, MSEd, LPC | Aug 7, 2023 | Holistic Wellness Through Faith-Based Approaches
Each of us has been touched by Barbie in some way during our lives. Barbie may have been a beloved figure, a contentious one, or even a forgotten childhood memory, but her influence has come back into focus recently. Barbie, the brainchild of Ruth Handler, was...
by Stephen A. Luther, MEd, MSEd, LPC | Aug 3, 2023 | Holistic Wellness Through Faith-Based Approaches
As we navigate the complexities of the modern world, more and more people are seeking help from mental health professionals. We are more aware now that God created everything in us to work synergistically together. Traditional therapeutic approaches have always played...
by Stephen A. Luther, MEd, MSEd, LPC | Jun 16, 2023 | Online Christian Counselling
In recent years, the field of counseling has undergone a remarkable transformation, largely driven by technological advancements and changing societal dynamics. One area that has experienced significant evolution is online Christian counseling. While big brands have...
by Stephen A. Luther, MEd, MSEd, LPC | Jun 14, 2023 | Online Christian Counselling
NuWell Counseling: Affordable and Effective Online Christian Counseling In today’s fast-paced world, many people are seeking convenient and accessible alternatives to traditional in-person counseling. At NuWell Counseling, we understand the importance of mental...
by Stephen A. Luther, MEd, MSEd, LPC | Jun 14, 2023 | Pastoral Counseling
Nurturing Marital Bliss: Discover the Power of Pastoral Counseling at NuWell In the journey of love and companionship, it’s not uncommon for couples to encounter challenges along the way. Marital issues can arise from various sources, such as communication...
by Stephen A. Luther, MEd, MSEd, LPC | Mar 14, 2023 | NuWELL
WHAT IS SAD? Seasonal Affective Disorder (SAD) is a type of depression that typically occurs during the fall and winter months when daylight hours are shorter. It is also known as winter depression, winter blues, or seasonal depression. Some symptoms of SAD can...
by Stephen A. Luther, MEd, MSEd, LPC | Feb 23, 2023 | NuWELL
Grief, presence, and practical care By Stephen A. Luther, MEd, MSEd, LPC · Reviewed and updated October 16, 2026 · 10 min read You open the message box and delete three drafts. “Everything happens for a reason” feels too small. “Let me know if you need anything” feels...
by Stephen A. Luther, MEd, MSEd, LPC | Feb 23, 2023 | NuWELL, Pastoral Counseling
Relationships and repair By Stephen A. Luther, MEd, MSEd, LPC · Reviewed and updated October 15, 2026 · About 9 minutes You sit down at the end of the day and realize you have exchanged schedules, reminders, and complaints, but not much of...
by Stephen A. Luther, MEd, MSEd, LPC | Feb 23, 2023 | NuWELL
Faith and emotional health By Stephen Luther, MEd, MSEd, LPC · Reviewed and updated October 7, 2026 · 8 min read You keep telling yourself it will pass. You pray about it, push through the week, and try not to burden anyone. But the heaviness, the worry, or the...
by Stephen A. Luther, MEd, MSEd, LPC | Feb 23, 2023 | NuWELL
Splankna is a form of energy psychology that combines Christian beliefs and principles with traditional Chinese medicine, neuroscience, and other modalities to promote healing and spiritual growth. The word “splankna” comes from the Greek word used in the...
by Stephen A. Luther, MEd, MSEd, LPC | Feb 23, 2023 | NuWELL
Cognitive-behavioral therapy (CBT) is a form of psychological treatment that has been proven effective for a wide range of mental health conditions, including anxiety disorders, depression, post-traumatic stress disorder (PTSD), and eating disorders. CBT is based on...
by Stephen A. Luther, MEd, MSEd, LPC | Jan 24, 2023 | Online Christian Counselling
Faith, sexual integrity, and next steps By Stephen Luther, MEd, MSEd, LPC · Reviewed and updated October 8, 2026 · 10 min read You promised yourself it was the last time. Then stress, loneliness, anger, boredom, secrecy, or easy access pulled you toward the same...
by Stephen A. Luther, MEd, MSEd, LPC | Jan 24, 2023 | Pastoral Counseling
Faith and emotional responsibility By Stephen A. Luther, MEd, MSEd, LPC · Reviewed and updated October 14, 2026 · 10 min read Your shoulders tighten. You draft the argument before the other person finishes speaking. Maybe you raise your voice. Maybe you go cold and...
by Stephen A. Luther, MEd, MSEd, LPC | Jan 24, 2023 | NuWELL
What is a Christian Life Coach? This profession is relatively new, but it has its roots in traditional life coaching. What is a life coach? Life coaches are professionals who guide a person toward a specific goal in life that the person wants to reach. Typically,...
by Stephen A. Luther, MEd, MSEd, LPC | Jan 23, 2023 | Grief and Loss, NuWELL, Pastoral Counseling
Divorce, grief, and faith By Stephen A. Luther, MEd, MSEd, LPC · Reviewed and updated October 15, 2026 · About 10 minutes Divorce can make ordinary life feel unfamiliar. Court dates, bills, parenting schedules, housing, church relationships,...
by Stephen A. Luther, MEd, MSEd, LPC | Jan 23, 2023 | Christian Life and Business Coaching, NuWELL, Pastoral Counseling
Biblical discernment By Stephen A. Luther, MEd, MSEd, LPC · Reviewed and updated October 15, 2026 · About 9 minutes You can pray sincerely and still not know which job to take, whether to move, how to respond to a strained relationship, or when...
by Stephen A. Luther, MEd, MSEd, LPC | Jan 23, 2023 | NuWELL
Christian New Year’s resolutions with grace By Stephen A. Luther, MEd, MSEd, LPC · Reviewed and updated October 20, 2026 · 8 min read January can make change feel clean and immediate, which is why so many believers make Christian New Year’s resolutions. You buy the...
by Stephen A. Luther, MEd, MSEd, LPC | Dec 19, 2022 | NuWELL
Online Christian Counseling has become almost commonplace in the modern era, at least throughout the developed world. As online Christian Counseling has become run-of-the-mill, the one- hour-per-week therapy session has become standard along with it. Given the...
by Stephen A. Luther, MEd, MSEd, LPC | Dec 16, 2022 | NuWELL
Christian phone boundaries By Stephen A. Luther, MEd, MSEd, LPC · Reviewed and updated October 21, 2026 · 8 min read You open the Bible and reach for the phone before finishing the first paragraph. A notification becomes a message, the message becomes a feed, and...
by Stephen A. Luther, MEd, MSEd, LPC | Dec 16, 2022 | NuWELL
Help your teen engage with Christmas By Stephen A. Luther, MEd, MSEd, LPC · Reviewed and updated October 22, 2026 · 8 min read Your teenager used to run toward the tree. Now they sleep late, question the church service, prefer friends, or shrug when you suggest a...
by Stephen A. Luther, MEd, MSEd, LPC | Dec 13, 2022 | NuWELL
The importance of going to church By Stephen A. Luther, MEd, MSEd, LPC · Reviewed October 29, 2026 · 9 min read Sunday arrives, and you feel two things at once. You miss singing with other believers, receiving Communion or the Lord’s Supper, and seeing familiar faces....
by Stephen A. Luther, MEd, MSEd, LPC | Dec 12, 2022 | NuWELL
Feeling guilty for self-care By Stephen A. Luther, MEd, MSEd, LPC · Reviewed and updated October 19, 2026 · 12 min read You finally sit down, but your mind keeps listing what you could be doing for your children, your spouse, your church, your work, or the person who...
by Stephen A. Luther, MEd, MSEd, LPC | Dec 12, 2022 | Pastoral Counseling
Living with mental illness as a Christian By Stephen A. Luther, MEd, MSEd, LPC · Reviewed November 5, 2026 · 10 min read The appointment is on the calendar. Medication may be on the counter. You may know the name of the condition, or you may still be waiting for an...
by Stephen A. Luther, MEd, MSEd, LPC | Dec 9, 2022 | NuWELL
Christian marriage tips for newlyweds By Stephen A. Luther, MEd, MSEd, LPC · Reviewed November 3, 2026 · 9 min read The wedding is over, but you are still learning how two histories, schedules, budgets, families, expectations, bodies, and prayer lives fit under one...
by Stephen A. Luther, MEd, MSEd, LPC | Dec 9, 2022 | NuWELL
Meaning of Christmas for Christians By Stephen A. Luther, MEd, MSEd, LPC · Reviewed and updated October 22, 2026 · 8 min read The tree is lit, gifts are waiting, and a familiar carol is playing. Yet you may still wonder what all of this has to do with the birth of...
by Stephen A. Luther, MEd, MSEd, LPC | Dec 8, 2022 | NuWELL
Reconnect with God at Christmas By Stephen A. Luther, MEd, MSEd, LPC · Reviewed and updated October 21, 2026 · 8 min read The church is singing about joy, the tree is lit, and your prayer feels flat. You may still believe what Christmas means and still feel...
by Stephen A. Luther, MEd, MSEd, LPC | Dec 7, 2022 | NuWELL
Shopping is rampant, decorations are abundant, and Santa will once again somehow manage to slide down your chimney; it’s Christmas time. That time of the year when the world seems a little brighter and people are a little nicer, but it can also be a troublesome...
by Stephen A. Luther, MEd, MSEd, LPC | Dec 5, 2022 | NuWELL
Christian self-control By Stephen A. Luther, MEd, MSEd, LPC · Reviewed and updated November 4, 2026 · 9 min read You planned to stop after one video, one purchase, one angry reply, or one delay. Then the choice seemed to happen before you had time to think. Later,...
by Stephen A. Luther, MEd, MSEd, LPC | Dec 5, 2022 | NuWELL
Even by the God of thy father, who shall help thee; and by the Almighty, who shall bless thee with blessings of heaven above, blessings of the deep that lieth under, blessings of the breasts, and of the womb: Genesis 49:25 KJV Blessed has reached such heights...
by Stephen A. Luther, MEd, MSEd, LPC | Dec 2, 2022 | Pastoral Counseling
You may want support that takes your faith seriously, but the nearest provider is an hour away. Perhaps work, caregiving, disability, or a packed family schedule makes another weekly drive unrealistic. Or maybe you can find a local counselor, but you are not sure...
by Stephen A. Luther, MEd, MSEd, LPC | Nov 23, 2022 | NuWELL
Christian holiday family conflict By Stephen A. Luther, MEd, MSEd, LPC · Reviewed November 3, 2026 · 10 min read The invitation arrives, and your body reacts before you answer. You picture criticism of your parenting, the political argument that returns every year, or...
by Stephen A. Luther, MEd, MSEd, LPC | Nov 21, 2022 | Pastoral Counseling
Christian discernment and care By Stephen Luther, MEd, MSEd, LPC · Reviewed and updated September 30, 2026 · 9 min read Someone you love has stopped sleeping. They say they hear a voice, feel watched, or believe ordinary events contain a hidden...
by Stephen A. Luther, MEd, MSEd, LPC | Nov 18, 2022 | NuWELL
Anger is an everyday emotion that we all struggle with. Maybe somebody cut you off in traffic, or perhaps someone said a rude comment about you online. Whatever the cause, our anger can take many shapes and forms; when not expressed healthily, it can cause devastating...
by Stephen A. Luther, MEd, MSEd, LPC | Nov 18, 2022 | Pastoral Counseling
The family group chat goes quiet after one sharp message. A visit ends with everyone replaying what was said. A disagreement about caregiving, money, parenting, faith, or the holidays reopens ten years of hurt. You want peace, but you do not want “keeping the peace”...
by Stephen A. Luther, MEd, MSEd, LPC | Nov 18, 2022 | NuWELL
Grief is inevitable in the life of every Christian. The mourning process is slow and painful, but Christians never have to experience it alone. Relying on God can help you move through the grieving process and allow you to grow closer to Him. As Christians...
by Stephen A. Luther, MEd, MSEd, LPC | Nov 17, 2022 | NuWELL
Faith and emotional health By Stephen Luther, MEd, MSEd, LPC · Reviewed and updated October 8, 2026 · 8 min read The alarm goes off, but getting out of bed feels harder than it did a few months ago. You are sleeping longer, withdrawing from people, craving comfort...
by Stephen A. Luther, MEd, MSEd, LPC | Nov 14, 2022 | NuWELL
Church leaders and addiction By Stephen A. Luther, MEd, MSEd, LPC · Reviewed and updated October 16, 2026 · 11 min read A church member waits until the room is empty. “Pastor, I think I am losing control.” You may feel the weight of the moment immediately. You want to...
by Stephen A. Luther, MEd, MSEd, LPC | Nov 14, 2022 | NuWELL
Christian political stress and civic responsibility By Stephen A. Luther, MEd, MSEd, LPC · Reviewed and updated October 19, 2026 · 10 min read You check one headline before breakfast and end up reading ten. A clip makes your pulse rise. Someone you love shares a post...
by Stephen A. Luther, MEd, MSEd, LPC | Nov 14, 2022 | NuWELL
Stress is “a state of mental or emotional strain or tension resulting from adverse or very demanding circumstances.” Pastors understand the concept of stress very well, though often in a different light than those not of the clergy. Pastoral stress is a unique...
by Stephen A. Luther, MEd, MSEd, LPC | Nov 7, 2022 | NuWELL
Spiritual warfare for pastors and ministry leaders By Stephen A. Luther, MEd, MSEd, LPC · Reviewed and updated October 20, 2026 · 8 min read A sermon stalls. A board conversation turns sharp. A confidential burden follows you home, and prayer feels unusually...
by Stephen A. Luther, MEd, MSEd, LPC | Nov 7, 2022 | NuWELL
Pastors, pornography, and ministry responsibility By Stephen A. Luther, MEd, MSEd, LPC · Reviewed and updated October 19, 2026 · 12 min read You close the browser, clear the history, and promise that it was the last time. Then Sunday comes. You preach, pray with...
by Stephen A. Luther, MEd, MSEd, LPC | Nov 7, 2022 | NuWELL
Christian Thanksgiving By Stephen A. Luther, MEd, MSEd, LPC · Reviewed November 3, 2026 · 10 min read The turkey may be thawing, messages may be arriving, and plans may still be changing. Under all of that, you may be asking a quieter question: How can this...
by Stephen A. Luther, MEd, MSEd, LPC | Nov 7, 2022 | NuWELL, Pastoral Counseling
Ministry leadership and discernment By Stephen A. Luther, MEd, MSEd, LPC · Reviewed and updated October 13, 2026 · 9 min read The sermon is ready, the hospital visit is scheduled, and three people are waiting for an answer. Meanwhile, the...
by Stephen A. Luther, MEd, MSEd, LPC | Oct 26, 2022 | Pastoral Counseling
Proverbs 15:22 says, “Without counsel, purposes are disappointed: But in the multitude of counselors, they are established.” Stigmas regarding receiving counsel have tirelessly gone without rest from generation to generation. Therefore, many who...
by Stephen A. Luther, MEd, MSEd, LPC | Aug 31, 2022 | Pastoral Counseling
How to help a child who is struggling emotionally By Stephen A. Luther, MEd, MSEd, LPC · Reviewed November 5, 2026 · 10 min read Your child used to run inside and tell you about recess. Now the backpack drops by the door and the answer is “nothing.” Bedtime takes...
by Stephen A. Luther, MEd, MSEd, LPC | Aug 31, 2022 | NuWELL
Mom: A few kids hang from the rafters while others watch the latest trance-setting TV show. Hair in a messy bun. Clothes with mustard stains. Cereal and crusty milk stuck to the forehead. Dogs are barking, and cats are scratching up the couch. Suzie and Bart are...
by Stephen A. Luther, MEd, MSEd, LPC | Aug 31, 2022 | NuWELL
Handling stress as a Christian By Stephen A. Luther, MEd, MSEd, LPC · Reviewed and updated October 19, 2026 · 10 min read The message arrives while you are answering another message. The calendar is full, your shoulders are tight, and even prayer begins to feel like...
by Stephen A. Luther, MEd, MSEd, LPC | Aug 23, 2022 | NuWELL
How to keep your faith in college By Stephen A. Luther, MEd, MSEd, LPC · Reviewed October 28, 2026 · 9 min read The first weeks of college can rearrange almost everything at once. No parent wakes you for church. Your roommate may believe differently. Classes raise...
by Stephen A. Luther, MEd, MSEd, LPC | Aug 19, 2022 | NuWELL
Christian back-to-school support By Stephen A. Luther, MEd, MSEd, LPC · Reviewed and updated October 27, 2026 · 9 min read The backpack is ready, but your child is not. A younger child asks the same question about the bus. A middle schooler says they do not care, then...
by Stephen A. Luther, MEd, MSEd, LPC | Aug 16, 2022 | NuWELL
Addiction can seemingly come out of nowhere in the life of a Christian. Often, it stems from a state of crisis. We may turn to alcohol or drugs, or pornography to distract ourselves and numb the pain we feel. What is it about the pain that makes Christians such an...
by Stephen A. Luther, MEd, MSEd, LPC | Aug 12, 2022 | NuWELL
Christians sometimes have a difficult time acknowledging mental illness. While they’ve got no issues accepting physical illness, there’s a stigma against mental health in the church. Since the Fall of Adam and Eve, humanity has lived in a broken world. From that world...
by Stephen A. Luther, MEd, MSEd, LPC | Aug 11, 2022 | Pastoral Counseling
Biblical parenting principles By Stephen A. Luther, MEd, MSEd, LPC · Reviewed and updated October 26, 2026 · 8 min read A child lies about homework. Siblings keep hurting each other with words. A teenager challenges a rule. You may know several Bible verses about...
by Stephen A. Luther, MEd, MSEd, LPC | Aug 11, 2022 | NuWELL
How to talk to your teen about therapy By Stephen A. Luther, MEd, MSEd, LPC · Reviewed and updated October 23, 2026 · 10 min read Your teenager is pulling away, missing school, or losing interest in friends. You want to suggest therapy, but you are afraid they will...
by Stephen A. Luther, MEd, MSEd, LPC | Aug 6, 2022 | NuWELL
Teen mental health warning signs By Stephen A. Luther, MEd, MSEd, LPC · Reviewed and updated October 23, 2026 · 9 min read Your teenager used to meet friends after school. Now the bedroom door stays closed, grades are slipping, and every question ends in “I’m fine.”...
by Stephen A. Luther, MEd, MSEd, LPC | Aug 3, 2022 | Pastoral Counseling
Christian parenting for teenagers By Stephen A. Luther, MEd, MSEd, LPC · Reviewed and updated October 26, 2026 · 9 min read Your teenager answers a simple question with “fine,” closes the bedroom door, or argues about a rule that seemed settled last month. You may...
by Stephen A. Luther, MEd, MSEd, LPC | Aug 1, 2022 | NuWELL
How to start your day with God By Stephen A. Luther, MEd, MSEd, LPC · Reviewed October 28, 2026 · 9 min read Your alarm stops, and your hand already knows where to go. One message becomes an email, a headline, a work problem, or ten minutes of scrolling. Before your...
by Stephen A. Luther, MEd, MSEd, LPC | Jul 20, 2022 | NuWELL
Grunts… Raahhhhs… Ooooos… A country music mixup with a new age beat. The traditional background music at the gym. People looking to show off their newest workout gear, swole biceps from pumping that iron, strutting down the gym runway to shake it as...
by Stephen A. Luther, MEd, MSEd, LPC | Jul 20, 2022 | NuWELL
I like to work out at least four days per week. Actually, this habit only started about 7 years ago when I was in the heat of depression. The only reason I started to work out was that a friend of mine, who I used to clean houses with, inspired me. She encouraged me...
by Stephen A. Luther, MEd, MSEd, LPC | Jul 20, 2022 | NuWELL
Going back to the previous blog, we were discussing my late Chocolate Labrador Retriever Bee. About three months before Bee passed, I saw a vinyl sign placed high on a fence next to a farm field. It had all these little chocolate lab puppies on it along with a “For...
by Stephen A. Luther, MEd, MSEd, LPC | Jul 20, 2022 | NuWELL
Who doesn’t love puppies? Puppies are the epitome of joy. They are cute, fluffy, funny, awkward… even when they are bad, they are cute. They chew up the most expensive pair of shoes we have, sometimes the wall or the trim on the wall. Still, they are loved...
by Stephen A. Luther, MEd, MSEd, LPC | Jul 14, 2022 | NuWELL
My backyard is a forest. Well, I should say the people behind my house have a forest– my yard just happens to meet on the verge of it. Thus, I get to enjoy the fruit of beauty without having to plant the seeds of the effort of maintenance. Over the spring, summer, and...
by Stephen A. Luther, MEd, MSEd, LPC | Jul 14, 2022 | NuWELL
Have you ever been “in love?” Do you know that feeling? Some have called it butterflies (i.e., anxiety), others describe it as blindness to reality (i.e., rose-colored glasses). A feeling like our whole world is consumed by that one person– forgetting what lies before...
by Stephen A. Luther, MEd, MSEd, LPC | Jul 13, 2022 | NuWELL
Survival. It’s a word that denotes a victory in the face of difficult odds. Surviving requires strength. It takes effort and focuses to survive. If and when we survive circumstances, were said to have overcome them. Surviving means having beaten death itself. Our...
by Stephen A. Luther, MEd, MSEd, LPC | Jul 13, 2022 | NuWELL
Have you ever really looked at a spider web? We’ve all seen them, strung up between bushes in the yard, or maybe in the corner of the basement, dangling from the rafters. Maybe you’ve gotten an unintentional close-up look as you walked through one on a wooded...
by Stephen A. Luther, MEd, MSEd, LPC | Jul 13, 2022 | NuWELL
“My husband has little to no interest in being intimate with me although I believe he loves me very much. How do I handle this? Do I ask him point blank what the issue is (although I’m afraid of the answer) or do I take my concern to God in prayer and...
by Stephen A. Luther, MEd, MSEd, LPC | Jul 13, 2022 | NuWELL
Every one of us has internally questioned the reason(s) we exist, why we are here, or what we were uniquely created for. Many people seek the advice of friends and family in their search for answers. We use assessment tools like Meyers Briggs or DiSC to tell us things...
by Stephen A. Luther, MEd, MSEd, LPC | Jul 12, 2022 | NuWELL
A little less than 8 years ago, this country was celebrating the election of its first African-American President. A select few proclaimed that Barack Obama’s victories were a signal marking the end of racism in this country. In contrast, other voices are now...
by Stephen A. Luther, MEd, MSEd, LPC | Jul 12, 2022 | NuWELL
How to listen well By Stephen A. Luther, MEd, MSEd, LPC · Reviewed and updated November 4, 2026 · 10 min read The other person is still speaking, but your answer is already forming. You hear one phrase that feels unfair. Your attention moves from understanding to...
by Stephen A. Luther, MEd, MSEd, LPC | Jul 12, 2022 | NuWELL
As a relationship educator and student of human nature, I have read, spoken, and written about the comparative significance between our roles and our identities in numerous formats and spaces. It is a distinction I think we must all be reminded of with a fair amount...
by Stephen A. Luther, MEd, MSEd, LPC | Jul 12, 2022 | NuWELL
Does anyone else like to shop? I love to shop. Most of all, I love to shop for clothes, shoes, and aesthetically pleasing “things.” Things to make my life more convenient or pleasant. I like having a cozy home environment– one that is hospitable and warm. This means I...
by Stephen A. Luther, MEd, MSEd, LPC | Jul 12, 2022 | NuWELL
The indelible grocery cart… When you leave the store with $300 worth of groceries (that you went in with the intention of buying one thing), do you put the cart back where it belongs? Or do you contribute to the parking lot chaos and unavailability of carts for the...
by Stephen A. Luther, MEd, MSEd, LPC | Jul 11, 2022 | NuWELL
I can’t help but think about the word, “Independence,” after we just celebrated the 4th of July weekend. What comes to mind is the thought of independence from the yoke of slavery. Independence can be considered as a collective, or as an individual. Considering the...
by Stephen A. Luther, MEd, MSEd, LPC | Jul 7, 2022 | NuWELL
Who is Jesus Christ By Stephen A. Luther, MEd, MSEd, LPC · Reviewed November 2, 2026 · 9 min read A person can know many titles for Jesus and still wonder what Christians mean by them. Son of God. Son of Man. Savior. Lord. Word made flesh. Teacher. Messiah. All of...
by Stephen A. Luther, MEd, MSEd, LPC | Jul 7, 2022 | NuWELL
Angels and demons in the Bible By Stephen A. Luther, MEd, MSEd, LPC · Reviewed November 2, 2026 · 8 min read A short video claims a repeated number is an angel message. Another says a nightmare proves a demon has entered the home. A painful conflict is labeled...
by Stephen A. Luther, MEd, MSEd, LPC | Jul 7, 2022 | NuWELL
Creation and providence By Stephen A. Luther, MEd, MSEd, LPC · Reviewed November 2, 2026 · 9 min read A diagnosis changes the week. Or a storm damages a home. A long-prayed-for opportunity arrives on the same day another door closes. Christians may say, “God is in...
by Stephen A. Luther, MEd, MSEd, LPC | Jul 7, 2022 | NuWELL
God’s immanence and transcendence By Stephen A. Luther, MEd, MSEd, LPC · Reviewed and updated November 3, 2026 · 9 min read A prayer seems to rise no higher than the room. A night sky makes you feel very small. Then a friend says God is closer than your breath, while...
by Stephen A. Luther, MEd, MSEd, LPC | Jul 7, 2022 | NuWELL
Clarity and sufficiency of Scripture By Stephen A. Luther, MEd, MSEd, LPC · Reviewed and updated November 3, 2026 · 10 min read You open the Bible because you want direction, but the passage is difficult. One teacher says ordinary Christians can understand Scripture....
by Stephen A. Luther, MEd, MSEd, LPC | Jul 7, 2022 | NuWELL
Biblical inerrancy By Stephen A. Luther, MEd, MSEd, LPC · Reviewed and updated November 3, 2026 · 10 min read You hear a pastor say, “The Bible is inerrant,” and the word sounds simple until a real question appears. Why do Gospel accounts arrange some events...
by Stephen A. Luther, MEd, MSEd, LPC | Jul 7, 2022 | NuWELL
General and special revelation By Stephen A. Luther, MEd, MSEd, LPC · Reviewed October 29, 2026 · 9 min read A mountain view can fill you with awe. A guilty conscience can make you aware that right and wrong are more than preferences. Then you open the Bible and meet...
by Stephen A. Luther, MEd, MSEd, LPC | Jul 7, 2022 | NuWELL
Primary and secondary doctrines By Stephen A. Luther, MEd, MSEd, LPC · Reviewed October 29, 2026 · 9 min read Two Christians open the same Bible and reach different conclusions about baptism, church leadership, spiritual gifts, or the timing of Christ’s return. One...
by Stephen A. Luther, MEd, MSEd, LPC | Jul 7, 2022 | NuWELL
In studying theology, we must initially consider what our assumptions are, and what our presuppositions are concerning our faith. This awareness or the act of being awake to our own beliefs (prior to the study) will help us to understand our biases and therefore lead...
by Stephen A. Luther, MEd, MSEd, LPC | Jul 6, 2022 | NuWELL
As observed in the introduction to these studies on theology, it is important to have a heart fully captured by God, which stimulates the desire to study Scripture, or His inerrant Word (without error, infallible), to get to know and love Him personally, and to better...
by Stephen A. Luther, MEd, MSEd, LPC | Jul 4, 2022 | NuWELL
Theology and mental health By Stephen A. Luther, MEd, MSEd, LPC · Reviewed October 28, 2026 · 9 min read You make a mistake and immediately think, God is disappointed in me. You feel depressed and wonder whether a faithful Christian should be able to pray it away. A...
by Stephen A. Luther, MEd, MSEd, LPC | Jun 29, 2022 | NuWELL
Christian parenting and technology By Stephen A. Luther, MEd, MSEd, LPC · Reviewed and updated October 27, 2026 · 9 min read The phone comes to the table again. A child closes an app when you walk by. Bedtime drifts later because one more video becomes five. You may...
by Stephen A. Luther, MEd, MSEd, LPC | Jun 28, 2022 | NuWELL
When most Christians consider navigating political differences, they usually consider not bringing it up at Christmas dinner or refusing to discuss it with their friends or family. Is avoiding confrontation the Biblical route to take? How can we grow as Christians if...
by Stephen A. Luther, MEd, MSEd, LPC | Jun 24, 2022 | NuWELL
How to help a teen struggling with faith By Stephen A. Luther, MEd, MSEd, LPC · Reviewed and updated October 23, 2026 · 9 min read Your teenager says church feels pointless. A question about suffering turns into an argument about whether God is good. Or a child who...
by Stephen A. Luther, MEd, MSEd, LPC | Jun 23, 2022 | NuWELL
Christian counseling for teens By Stephen A. Luther, MEd, MSEd, LPC · Reviewed and updated October 23, 2026 · 7 min read Your teenager is carrying something heavy. Maybe it is questions about God, a friendship that fell apart, pressure at school, tension at home, or...
by Stephen A. Luther, MEd, MSEd, LPC | Jun 21, 2022 | NuWELL
As parents, we desire the best for our children. However, as they grow older and become more exposed to the world through social media and their friends, struggles with their mental health could arise. We often notice when our teens are struggling emotionally, but we...
by Stephen A. Luther, MEd, MSEd, LPC | Jun 16, 2022 | NuWELL
Church and mental health By Stephen A. Luther, MEd, MSEd, LPC · Reviewed and updated October 27, 2026 · 9 min read The worship song begins, but you feel detached. Someone asks how you are, and “fine” arrives before the truth. You may wonder whether going to church...
by Stephen A. Luther, MEd, MSEd, LPC | Jun 13, 2022 | NuWELL
Pornography is one of the most significant struggles facing the modern Christian. Modern technology has made it possible for pornography and sexual immorality to be at the forefront of our daily lives, causing some of us to fall into darkness and spiral into...
by Stephen A. Luther, MEd, MSEd, LPC | Jun 9, 2022 | NuWELL
Updated October 9, 2026Reviewed by Stephen A. Luther, MEd, MSEd, LPCNon-clinical pastoral scopeCost is not a shallow question. It can determine whether support is sustainable, whether a family can keep other commitments, and whether you begin at all. You deserve a...
by Stephen A. Luther, MEd, MSEd, LPC | Jun 7, 2022 | Christian Life and Business Coaching, NuWELL
Christian leadership values By Stephen A. Luther, MEd, MSEd, LPC · Reviewed November 9, 2026 · 8 min read A Christian leader may carry a title in a church, business, ministry, school, family, or volunteer team. The title may open a door, but it does not prove the...
by Stephen A. Luther, MEd, MSEd, LPC | Jun 6, 2022 | NuWELL
Freedom in Christ By Stephen A. Luther, MEd, MSEd, LPC · Reviewed November 10, 2026 · 9 min read You may believe that Jesus sets people free and still feel trapped by the same shame, fear, substance, secret, or relationship pattern. That tension can lead to a painful...
by Stephen A. Luther, MEd, MSEd, LPC | Jun 6, 2022 | NuWELL
God isn’t saying no, just not yet. Or not that one. Sometimes no stands for the next option but we’re still stuck on the past and what didn’t work so he can’t do the new thing or release the blessing he has for you into that dead situation or spirit...
by Stephen A. Luther, MEd, MSEd, LPC | Jun 6, 2022 | NuWELL
Because the Kingdom of Heaven is upon us. Whether we get with it or choose not to, it’s coming and nothing will stop it. So he’s presenting us with opposing views. Working for him, or man. Are we good with Heavenly rewards or is that Tesla and that...
by Stephen A. Luther, MEd, MSEd, LPC | Jun 6, 2022 | NuWELL
How to resist temptation By Stephen A. Luther, MEd, MSEd, LPC · Reviewed November 10, 2026 · 9 min read The thought appears before you feel ready. Open the app. Send the message. Take the drink. Hide the purchase. Say the cutting sentence. You may pray for strength...
by Stephen A. Luther, MEd, MSEd, LPC | Jun 6, 2022 | NuWELL
Waiting on God By Stephen A. Luther, MEd, MSEd, LPC · Reviewed November 10, 2026 · 9 min read You prayed, asked wise people, and took the responsible steps you could see. The result still has not arrived. The job is uncertain. The relationship has not changed. The...
by Stephen A. Luther, MEd, MSEd, LPC | Jun 6, 2022 | Pastoral Counseling
Family and spiritual life By Stephen Luther, MEd, MSEd, LPC · Reviewed and updated October 2, 2026 · 8 min read A family disagreement can become spiritually disorienting. One sharp exchange turns into weeks of silence. Relatives recruit allies. Old wounds return,...
by Stephen A. Luther, MEd, MSEd, LPC | Jun 6, 2022 | NuWELL, Pastoral Counseling
Why does God allow suffering? By Stephen A. Luther, MEd, MSEd, LPC · Reviewed November 9, 2026 · 8 min read The question often comes after a real loss: a diagnosis, betrayal, death, disaster, assault, unanswered prayer, or harm done by someone who claimed to represent...
by Stephen A. Luther, MEd, MSEd, LPC | Jun 6, 2022 | NuWELL
When we think of warfare, we think of tanks, helicopters, and soldiers in their barracks; we see warfare as a physical threat. There is a different kind of war being waged around us, one that doesn’t involve guns and bombs but involves the very heart of humanity. Our...
by Stephen A. Luther, MEd, MSEd, LPC | Jun 2, 2022 | Counseling
Marriage and communication By Stephen Luther, MEd, MSEd, LPC · Reviewed and updated September 30, 2026 · 10 min read You need to decide where the holidays will be spent. Or whether to take the new job, how much to spend on the car, how to...
by Stephen A. Luther, MEd, MSEd, LPC | Jun 2, 2022 | NuWELL
Just like a cake, communication can have many layers. Each layer of communication provides a deeper understanding of ourselves and our interactions with others. What are the five layers of the communication cake? The first layer is cliche. In this layer, there’s no...
by Stephen A. Luther, MEd, MSEd, LPC | Jun 2, 2022 | NuWELL
Communication is more than it appears. Below the surface, there are features that provide us a deeper understanding of a dialogue and can help us mature in our relationships as we mature in our communications. The first feature of communication is meaning. We live in...
by Stephen A. Luther, MEd, MSEd, LPC | Jun 2, 2022 | NuWELL
Types of communicators By Stephen A. Luther, MEd, MSEd, LPC · Reviewed November 6, 2026 · 8 min read One person wants the headline. The other starts with the backstory. One names the hurt first. The other reaches for dates, details, and proof. Before long, both people...
by Stephen A. Luther, MEd, MSEd, LPC | Jun 2, 2022 | Pastoral Counseling
Healthy Christian communication By Stephen A. Luther, MEd, MSEd, LPC · Reviewed November 5, 2026 · 10 min read You know the conversation matters. You may need to address an unpaid bill, a broken promise, a church disagreement, a parenting concern, or words that caused...
by Stephen A. Luther, MEd, MSEd, LPC | Jun 2, 2022 | NuWELL
Communication is key to our walk with each other and with Christ. Like most things in life, there are ways to do something right and ways to do it wrong. How we communicate determines our relationship with others and how healthy those relationships can be. To get...
by Stephen A. Luther, MEd, MSEd, LPC | May 19, 2022 | NuWELL, Pastoral Counseling
Why relationships matter By Stephen A. Luther, MEd, MSEd, LPC · Reviewed November 9, 2026 · 8 min read You can have a full calendar and still feel unknown. You can also care deeply about people while carrying every relationship as if its health depends on you. Both...
by Stephen A. Luther, MEd, MSEd, LPC | May 19, 2022 | NuWELL
God has given us everything we need to live a godly life (I Peter 1:3) and offers us abundant life (John 10:10). It is our desire to equip you with the keys to unlock this potential and THRIVE in life: Integration – “For the word of God is living and active, sharper...
by Stephen A. Luther, MEd, MSEd, LPC | May 16, 2022 | NuWELL
God has given us everything we need to live a godly life (I Peter 1:3) and offers us abundant life (John 10:10). It is our desire to equip you with the keys to unlock this potential and THRIVE in life: Togetherness – “That which we have seen and heard we...
by Stephen A. Luther, MEd, MSEd, LPC | May 15, 2022 | NuWELL
Online therapy pros and cons By Stephen A. Luther, MEd, MSEd, LPC · Reviewed November 6, 2026 · 8 min read Online therapy can remove a long drive and make a licensed appointment possible from home. It can also bring problems that are easy to miss: state licensure,...
by Stephen A. Luther, MEd, MSEd, LPC | May 3, 2022 | Christian Life and Business Coaching
[vc_row][vc_column][vc_column_text] I have a distinct memory of certain poetry reverberating in my mind like sound waves through the soul… the ripple effect, seemingly a microcosm of a life with the potential to be lived or to merely exist, “Two roads diverged in a...
by Stephen A. Luther, MEd, MSEd, LPC | Aug 18, 2021 | Pastoral Counseling
Three people describe themselves as Christian counselors: a pastor, a coach with a ministry certificate, and a state-licensed therapist who integrates faith. Their roles are not interchangeable. If you are wondering how to choose a Christian counselor you can trust...
by Stephen A. Luther, MEd, MSEd, LPC | Aug 18, 2021 | NuWELL
Can Christians go to therapy By Stephen A. Luther, MEd, MSEd, LPC · Reviewed November 6, 2026 · 8 min read A Christian can believe in prayer and still need a licensed therapist. A person can trust Scripture and still need help with panic, trauma, depression,...
by Stephen A. Luther, MEd, MSEd, LPC | Aug 18, 2021 | NuWELL
Reconcile a marriage after separation By Stephen A. Luther, MEd, MSEd, LPC · Reviewed and updated October 21, 2026 · 10 min read One spouse is still in the family home. The other is living somewhere else. A few calmer conversations have made hope feel possible, but...
